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The Rocking Chair Tour

April 30th, 2017 by Sallie Bingham in Women, Theater 4 Comments

 Jeanne Roberson - The Rocking Chair Tour

Jeanne Roberson – The Rocking Chair Tour

I bought tickets, but I couldn’t bring myself to go.

This does not mean disrespect for Jeanne Roberson whose show is probably as entrancing as she looks, and is said to be very funny.

I couldn’t go because I am so deeply into the idea of redefining age—or ageism, for that matter—and I don’t want to start with a rocking chair.

And maybe not even with a sparkly dress.

We never even got as far as humor when attempting to redefine manhood. Will humor get us nearer the starting gate when redefining age?

A few years ago, there was a lot of talk about redefining what it means to be a man. A lot of talk, and no results. In Bowling Green last weekend, the hotel was populated by enormous men who are in love with cars. In Louisville, the about-to-happen Derby produces adds in the local freebie newspaper for go-go dancers “to spice up your Derby parties.” The big football games still pre-empt every other form of entertainment, and even the news. And an interview with the producer of Margaret Atwood’s The Handmaid’s Tale was asked if he expected men to see it.

So we haven’t even reached the starting gate on redefining what it means to be a man. In a New Yorker cartoon that came out after the release of Brokeback Mountain, one ancient cowboy asks another, incredulously, “Were we gay?”

Maybe the expansion of all definitions begins with humor, and maybe that is where The Rocking Chair Tour fits in.

We never even got as far as humor when attempting to redefine manhood.

Will humor get us nearer the starting gate when redefining age?

The old fears and opinions, still granite-hard, rule. A recent article in The Wall Street Journal reports that some Catholic high schools are issuing 21 pages of rules about what may or may not be worn at proms. If we are afraid of the sexuality hinted at in a teenager’s inch of cleavage or length of naked leg, how will we ever contemplate even the dim suggestion of the same in a woman over seventy wearing a fitted sequined dress? (No cleavage, for sure!)

But if we give up the sequins, the make-up, the hair dye and all the rest of the tiresome and absolutely essential panoply of girl prettiness, what are we left with?

An idea of grayness, dryness.

A sense of removal from the hot pulsing center of life.

There must be a way to turn that rocking chair into a flying saucer, to oar it away with our brooms, into a future far more fearless than the menaced space we barely occupy now.

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A long and fruitful career as a writer began in 1960 with the publication of Sallie Bingham's novel, After Such Knowledge. This was followed by 15 collections of short stories in addition to novels, memoirs and plays, as well as the 2020 biography The Silver Swan: In Search of Doris Duke.

Her latest book, Taken by the Shawnee, is a work of historical fiction published by Turtle Point Press in June of 2024. Her previous memoir, Little Brother, was published by Sarabande Books in 2022. Her short story, "What I Learned From Fat Annie" won the Thomas Wolfe Fiction Prize in 2023 and the story "How Daddy Lost His Ear," from her forthcoming short story collection How Daddy Lost His Ear and Other Stories (September 23, 2025), received second prize in the 2023 Sean O’Faolain Short Story Competition.

She is an active and involved feminist, working for women’s empowerment, who founded the Kentucky Foundation for Women, which gives grants to Kentucky artists and writers who are feminists, The Sallie Bingham Center for Women's History and Culture at Duke University, and the Women’s Project and Productions in New York City. She lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

Sallie's complete biography is available here.

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  1. Maureen Bacon on Facebook says

    April 30th, 2017 at 7:56 am

    At 71 I am constantly trying to redefine myself. To wear so many different hats and to figure out how they fit now!!!

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  2. Carol M. Johnson says

    April 30th, 2017 at 5:57 pm

    Don’t pass another opportunity to see Jeanne. She can make you laugh at life in all its forms, shapes, and ages. She’s priceless.

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  3. Nancy Mitchell on Facebook says

    April 30th, 2017 at 7:26 pm

    Yes, if you have anything to do with it, Sallie Bingham!

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  4. Alice H Cash says

    April 30th, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    I saw Jeanne in Louisville a few years ago and she is pretty funny. I think the whole rocking chair reference has to do with the fact that she broke her leg very badly about 6 months ago and just can’t stand and do her 90-minute comedy routine any more. She has lots of YouTube videos and talks a lot about her Southern roots in small-town NC where she won the Miss North Caroline pageant sometime in the 50’s, I believe. Not everyone’s cup of tea, for sure!! Love ya Sallie!!

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