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Broken Hearts and Puppy Dogs

August 11th, 2015 by Sallie Bingham in New Mexico Leave a Comment

Mabel Dodge Luhan

Mabel Dodge Luhan

Lately I’ve been living with a broken heart, as we all do, from time to time, and perhaps should arrange to do more often because of the condition of the world around us. I can’t claim such a cause for my pain (I’ve learned from my exposure to Buddhism that pain always happens but suffering is a choice) but the pain, although personal, is very real.

I am so grateful for the presence of my black puppy, Pip. He’s a rescue dog, as of one month ago, from the amazing Santa Fe Animal Shelter; they took care of shots, nurturing, and the attention a puppy needs to feel he belongs, and the result is a lovely gentle quiet young dog who brings such joy into my life.

On our walk this morning, he plunged into the Acequia Madre—the old irrigation ditch, not running strong due to our providential rains—that threads through my neighborhood. Plunged is the word; he nearly jerked me in, as well, which would have been the best thing that could have happened to me—a real dousing for my sadness.

Pip has been checking the acequia as we walked; at some places, the bank was too steep, and he understood that, waiting until a lower place allowed him free access to the swiftly running and swirling clear, cool water.

Dillen ends with her arms raised high above her head, exhorting her audience, and particularly the women in her audience, to be shining stars, rising to shed our light on the parched and desolate landscape that surrounds us.

And in he plunged, drinking, pawing, immersing himself until he felt it was enough and jumped out again.

What a message for a good life…

Another form of message was granted to me last night in Leslie Dillen’s one-woman show at the Santa Fe Playhouse of her masterpiece, “The Passions of Mabel Dodge Luhan.”

Note that passions is in the plural.

Based on work Leslie started twenty years ago and incorporating the recent discovery, by Lois Rudnick, of previously suppressed journals and letters in Luhan’s archive at Yale (which Rudnick used for her extraordinary biography, the furthest of her adventures into Luhan’s extraordinary life), Leslie boldly, bravely and with the leaven of charm and humor brought Mabel Dodge Luhan to us in all her complexity and daring.

Mabel Dodge Luhan House

Mabel Dodge Luhan House

Luhan wrote with great command about her life in Taos in three remarkable books, however due to the prohibitions of her time she did not include the materials about her mental and physical health which Rudnick, and now Dillen, use to expand and enrich our understanding of one of the leading lights of the early twentieth century.

Dillen quotes Luhan as asking her audience, “Use me. Use my life”—the terrifying wish we all aspire to, even if we fail to get there.

She ends with her arms raised high above her head, exhorting her audience, and particularly the women in her audience, to be shining stars, rising to shed our light on the parched and desolate landscape that surrounds us.

What a gift, in both senses of the word, these two extraordinary writers and, in Dillen’s case, skilled performer, bring to us.

Broken heart or not, I am grateful. Between the genius of creative women and the company of black Pip—now clawing at the screen door to be allowed in—the cracks will surely heal.

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In New Mexico Acequia Madre Mabel Dodge Luhan Black Pip Lois Rudnick Leslie Dillen

A long and fruitful career as a writer began in 1960 with the publication of Sallie Bingham's novel, After Such Knowledge. This was followed by 15 collections of short stories in addition to novels, memoirs and plays, as well as the 2020 biography The Silver Swan: In Search of Doris Duke.

Her latest book, Taken by the Shawnee, is a work of historical fiction published by Turtle Point Press in June of 2024. Her previous memoir, Little Brother, was published by Sarabande Books in 2022. Her short story, "What I Learned From Fat Annie" won the Thomas Wolfe Fiction Prize in 2023 and the story "How Daddy Lost His Ear," from her forthcoming short story collection How Daddy Lost His Ear and Other Stories (September 23, 2025), received second prize in the 2023 Sean O’Faolain Short Story Competition.

She is an active and involved feminist, working for women’s empowerment, who founded the Kentucky Foundation for Women, which gives grants to Kentucky artists and writers who are feminists, The Sallie Bingham Center for Women's History and Culture at Duke University, and the Women’s Project and Productions in New York City. She lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

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